Not Being Nis'pael from a Problem Brings Yeshuos

I know a person who laughs at court cases. He can picture the judge like a person in a clown costume. Sure enough, he always wins! The same with Shiduchim and having children and improving relationships and moving. Your mind is a #1 factor, and not being Nis'pael from a problem (and instead being Nis'pael from a Nifla’os HaBorei) brings Yeshuos.