There is a story about a couple who had just gotten married and after seven days of feasting, they made their way to their new home outside the village.
The couple began the exhausting road with the groom riding his donkey and the woman stomping her legs from behind. Suddenly they heard a man from the side say to his friend: "Look what it is, we just got married and that's how he treats her and lets her go"? The groom heard this and immediately changed.
Less than an hour later, another couple of people heard another couple whispering: "We just got married and she already controls him! If that's the way it is now, what will happen next?" The groom was frightened and they both walked with the donkey in front of them.
Soon afterwards, a passerby heard from the side: "Stupid. They have a donkey, so why do they walk?" Tired but determined, the bride and groom got on the donkey and you can guess the following: "Poor donkey, they are both on it, soon his back will break and collapse."
The exhausted bride and groom got off and began to carry the donkey, one in front and the other in the back. When they reached the village, the residents saw them and said, "Wow, here are three donkeys."
What's the point? The point is don't try to please everyone. Do what your heart thinks is right.