PERSON CONNECTED TO THE PARSHA
Avner - Responsibilities of Leadership
The midrash (Vayikra Rabba 26) links the first pasuk of Emor to the story of the massacre of Nov, the city of kohanim.
HaShem showed Moshe the leaders of each and every generation, and Moshe was disturbed that Shaul, the first king of Israel, would be stabbed to death. HaShem’s answer was “emor el hakohanim” (say: for the kohanim). In other words, the stabbing of Shaul was a result of his own command to kill out the city of Kohanim (due to his misunderstanding that they supported Dovid in what Shaul saw as a budding revolt against his dynasty).
Naturally involved in that horrible event due was Avner ben Ner, responsible for internal security in Shaul’s regime. What his specific role was is less clear. We are told that the servants of Shaul did not agree to carry out the assassination order (Shmuel I, 22:17). The Yerushalmi (Sanhedrin 10:2) says that the one who refused was Avner, and for this he is to be praised. Yet, we do find that Avner was himself killed a few years later by Yoav ben Tzruyah, Dovid’s chief of staff, after Dovid had come to an agreement with him that would end the civil war between Dovid and Shaul’s son (Ish Boshes, whom Avner had supported), in return for a prominent post for Avner in Dovid’s administration.
For what sin was Avner punished?
One answer is provided by the Gemara in Sanhedrin (20a) as explained by Rashi. It says that he should have protested against Shaul’s decree to kill the Cohanim of Nov. But he did protest but it didn’t help. Apparently, it is not enough to refuse to carry out an unethical command of a king, but one must try to undo the command, which Avner failed to do.
A second opinion in that Gemara claims that he did try to stop Shaul but that he was punished for holding back Dovid’s ascent to a unified throne for over two years by attempting to install Ish Boshes (the son of Shaul) as King. His efforts to end the civil war were too little or at least too late in this regard.
A third opinion is found in the Yerushalmi (Peah 1:1) as explained by the Marasha regarding the tension between Shaul and Dovid which led to Dovid’s taking refuge in the desert. Dovid twice came close to Shaul in a manner that he could have killed him but did not, to prove to Shaul that he had no intentions to cause him harm. Once Dovid cut off the corner of Shaul’s garment, and once he took his water pitcher and his sword. These events almost overcame Shaul’s paranoia in regard to Dovid but were a great source of embarrassment to Avner, who was responsible for Shaul’s safety. According to this approach, Avner convinced Shaul that Dovid had just chanced upon Shaul’s property and did not in fact get close enough to kill him, thus keeping the feud going and causing much unnecessary hatred and bloodshed.
“King David was old, advanced in years; they covered him with garments, but he did not become warm." (Melachim I 1:1)
Chazal explain that King David could not stay warm because he had once cut off the corner of King Shaul's garment. Since he had shown disrespect for clothing, they (the clothing) did not serve him.
How King David came to cut off a corner of King Shaul's garment is related in Shmuel I, chapter 24. King Shaul was chasing David, hoping to kill him, and, unbeknownst to the King, David was cornered in a cave. Shmuel I, chapter 24, verses 4-5 relate, "So David arose and stealthily cut off a corner of Shaul's robe. Afterwards, however, David's conscience troubled him [literally, 'his heart smote him'] for having cut of the corner of Shaul's garment."
Why did David's conscience trouble him? The medrash explains that David felt guilty for depriving Shaul of the mitzvah of tzitzis. (After David cut off one corner, Shaul's garment no longer had four corners, and was exempt from tzitzis.)
