Guidance Influence in Pleasant Ways

...how to influence...her family in general to bring them close to Torah and its Mitzvos, ...the instruction of our Torah, the Torah of life...”Its ways are pleasant ways and all its paths are peace,” that although in matters of Judaism there is no room for compromise, but in order to affect also another person...we succeed in a greater measure and earlier through the abovementioned ways, pleasant ways and peaceful paths, and as is also clearly seen. This also makes us have enough patience to speak again and again and not to get angry, Heaven forbid, if in the early days we don’t yet succeed...

(From a letter of the Lubavitcher Rebbe King Moshiach Shlita, Igros Kodesh vol. 16, pg. 287)