Working on Patience Is Essential and It’s All Worth It

However, it may take a while to see the fruits of your labor. Hashem made this world for the human who needs to always work on patience. R' Zundel of Salant Zatzal said: הָבוֹטְל הָבָכַּע לָכּ Every setback is L'tovah. Being held back, being delayed, is actually a Tova. When you are M'kabel (accept) Yissurim B’ahavah, it brings Yeshuos, and being delayed is considered Yissurim.

A person should realize that this is the way the world was created. רֶקֹב יִהְיַו בֶרֶע יִהְיַו First it’s dark, and then it's light. All those issues that you daven overtime that they should go away will disappear if you have patience and you understand that it’s like taking a dive in the pool. First you bend down, and then you take a jump.