כִׂיְה א ד םְע ץְהַ ש דֶ הְְכְיט
A person is like a fruit tree which reproduces; each person has his own strengths and talents. Someone who is constantly working on discovering his Maalos and always fine-tuning his talents, is building and making fruits.
Never put yourself down (בַּלְ תַ שׁ חִׂ ית) and always build yourself up, with encouraging words and positive thoughts.
Since the whole essence of a human-being is to produce and to become great, therefore as soon as he is Niftar, the first question he is asked is: ע סַ ק ת ְבִּׂ פ רִׂ י הְור בִׂ י הְְשבתְלאְא Were you involved in the Mitzva of producing children? The Gr”a says that he will be shown a video of the beautiful life and the big Tzaddik which he had the potential to become. He says that this is worse than Gehinom.
The Mitzva of P'ru uR'vu is super important because it symbolizes productivity. A fruit tree is a symbol for the productivity of a person, and the Gemara says that it is a Sakana danger to cut it down. Arayos is called: הת ְח ְשׁ ְהְַ destructiveness (כִׂיְהִׂ שׁ חִׂ יתְכ לְ בּ שׂ רְ נחְוְיב) because it is abusing normal P'ru uR'vu (productivity).
