Realize Your Own Greatness Even When Others Disagree

Also, realizing your own Maalos without always needing the Haskamos (approval) of others is a healthy longevity for every human. “I love and thank Hashem for all my Maalos, and I don’t always check on the people around me to see how much they appreciate me, since I appreciate me”.

When you’re always at the mercy of people’s opinions of you, you’ll end up getting good and dizzy. Being a “people pleaser” is a hard life. You need to realize your own greatness, even when people disagree. (But don’t become a professional Meshugener... have Sechel).