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The Joy That Humbles

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Sukkos carries a name unlike any other Yom Tov in the our calendar - Zman Simchaseinu, the Season of Our Joy. Not only does the Torah command us to rejoice (דברים טז יד), the Yom Tov itself seems designed for it. In the agricultural calender, this is the season in which the harvest is gathered; the year's labour has borne fruit, the fields and orchards have given their abundance. A Yid stands at the threshold of this festival with his heart full.

Yet, specifically here, at the height of joy, there lurks a quiet danger. Simchah, as beautiful as it is, can lead to self-absorption an arrogance. The heart that is full can so easily become the heart that is proud. The Yid who has been blessed with bounty may find, almost without noticing, that the joy has turned inward - that he is celebrating himself, his harvest, his success, his world.

The Sefer HaChinuch names this danger with characteristic lucidity. The days of Sukkos, he explains, are days of profound joy for Klal Yisrael, it is the season of gathering in the grain and the fruit - the חַג הָאָסִיף. Precisely because joy pulls powerfully at human nature and causes the fear of Heaven to recede, Hashem commanded us in that very season to take into our hands the arba minim, that remind us: כִּי כָּל שִׂמְחַת לִבֵּנוּ לִשְׁמוֹ וְלִכְבוֹדוֹ "that all the joy of our heart is for His Name and His glory."

(ספר החינוך מצוה שכד)

The arba minim are not an interruption of our joy. They are its tikun - its correction and elevation. They redirect the simchah before it turns into ga'avah, before satisfaction turns into pride.

But the arba minim are not alone in this. Alongside them stands the sukkah, which accomplishes something even deeper. While the lulav reminds us that our joy belongs to Hashem, the sukkah demonstrates, in the most tangible way possible, that all the bounty we have gathered, all the homes we have built, all the security we have accumulated - these are עֲרַאי temporary.

The Agra d'Kalah quotes the Ba'al HaAkeidah, Reb Yitzchak Arama zt"l, who offers a penetrating explanation of why the Torah requires דִירַת עֲרַאי a temporary dwelling - for the sukkah (סוכה ב ע"א). The sukkah teaches a person that in this world, the bare necessities suffice. One needs shelter and food to put on table. The riches of this world such as homes and fields and vineyards, offer no true foundation on which to lean. They are fleeting, and they will be lost.

(אגרא דכלה פרשת מסעי ד"ה ויסעו בנ"י מרעמסס)

When a Yid enters the sukkah with the inner sense that all worldly concerns are secondary, transient, peripheral, and that what he truly desires is to devote the days of his life to doing the will of the Ribono Shel Olam, that very feeling is the hachna'ah, the humility and bittul. The sukkah does not merely represent impermanence. When entered with the right kavanah, it is the act of impermanence - a declaration that this world is a corridor, not a destination.

Zman Simchaseinu is thus a Yom Tov of two movements held in exquisite tension: the lifting of the heart in joy, and the bowing of the heart in humility. Also, it is the sukkah - the dwelling of impermanence - that is the ultimate expression of that submissiveness.

Our Crowning Glory

The holy Reb Uri of Strelisk zt"l raises a question on a famous passage in the life of Moshe Rabbeinu. In Parshas Ki Sisa, Moshe makes his great petition to Hashem: הַרְאֵנִי נָא אֶת כְּבֹדֶךְ "Show me, please, Your glory" (שמות לג יח). Hashem then revealed to him the י"ג מִדּוֹת שֶׁל רַחֲמִים, the Thirteen Attributes of Mercy, and soon after: וַיְמַהֵר מֹשֶׁה וַיִּקּד אַרְצָה - "Moshe hurried and bowed down to the earth" (שם לד ח). Why did Moshe hasten to prostrate himself at precisely that moment?

He explains it through a beautiful idea. Moshe Rabbeinu is known as the Shushvina d'Malka - the King's "groom's companion". The one who accompanies the King and sings His praises before the kallah. It is the shushvin's role to praise the chassan before the kallah and the kallah before the chassan.

Moshe had been singing the praises of Klal Yisrael - the Kallah - before the Ribono Shel Olam. When he asked הַרְאֵנִי נָא אֶת כְּבֹדֶךְ - Show me Your glory - Moshe wished to behold the splendor of the Hashem, in order to praise the Chassan before His kallah, the Yidden. When Hashem proclaimed before Moshe the Thirteen Holy Attributes, Moshe was seized by awe. Then, a sudden fear overtook him: the King would now ask him for the praises of Klal Yisrael. What could Moshe say in return? What could he offer as the crown jewel of Klal Yisrael's identity?

His answer came immediately, without hesitation: וַיְמַהֵר מֹשֶׁה וַיִּקּד אַרְצָה - Moshe hurried and bowed himself down to the earth. This was his answer. This is our glory. The greatness of Klal Yisrael lies in this: that we lower and humble ourselves to the ground, before the throne of Hashem's honor. We are the people of bittul - of self-nullification.

(אמרי קדוש פרשת כי תשא)

It seems that this is precisely the essence of dwelling in the Sukkah.

After Yom Kippur - the day on which Hashem conducted Himself toward us through the Thirteen Attributes of Mercy, we respond with our own offering. We leave our דִּירַת קְבַע, our permanent dwelling, and enter a דִּירַת עֲרַאי a temporary shelter. This is our crown, our praise: וַיְמַהֵר מֹשֶׁה וַיִּקּד אַרְצָה

The Test That Was Never About the Mitzvah

The Gemara in Avodah Zarah (ג ע"א) describes a remarkable scene at the end of days. The nations of the world will come before the Ribono Shel Olam and request reward, just like the Yidden, but Hashem will respond that the reward is only for the people who kept the Torah. After a long discussion, the nations will say: "Give it to us now, and we will fulfill it." Hashem will respond: "Foolish ones - he who laboured before Shabbos shall eat on Shabbos; he who did not labour on Erev Shabbos, from where will he eat on Shabbos?" Meaning that the opportunity for performing mitzvos has already passed, and it is now too late to ask to perform them. "Nevertheless", Hashem would say, "I have one simple mitzvah: Sukkah is its name. Go and perform it."

Immediately, every one of them will go and build a sukkah on the roof of his house. Hashem will bring upon them the heat of summer. Being unable to stand the heat they will leave the sukkah, kicking its walls on their way out.

The Gemara raises an objection: Hashem does not deal harshly with His creatures - why then does He send them sweltering heat, designed to force them out? The Gemara answers: even when such heat descends upon Yisrael during the Sukkos, they do not behave like the nations.

A further objection: Rava holds that one who is in distress is exempt from sitting in the sukkah, if the nations are suffering, they are halachically exempt! What is the claim against them for leaving?

The answer is, it is true that they are exempt, but do they leave with humility? Do they exit with pain? When Yisrael leave the sukkah on account of discomfort, they do not kick and storm their way out. They leave with heartache. They leave as people who wish they could stay.

Pause and consider what emerges from the Gemara's conclusion. Hashem will give the nations a mitzvah that, as it turns out, they will be technically exempt from performing. The test was never about fulfilling the mitzvah. The test was about how they would behave when they were released from it.

But this raises a question that demands an answer. There are countless mitzvos from which a person may be exempt under circumstances of oness - compulsion or inability. אנֶס רַחֲמָנָא פַּטְרֵיהּ (עי' עבו"ז נד ע"א). Why, of all mitzvos, did Hashem select specifically Sukkah?

The Foundation of All Torah Observance

According to the above understanding, the answer is now clear.

The entire observance of Torah rests on a single foundation: humility and nullification before the will of the One who gave the Torah, alongside the deep conviction that the affairs of this world are a passageway toward the world to come. As the Maharsha writes (חידושי אגדות שם ד"ה ומי מצית): "The intention was to hint to them through the mitzvah of Sukkah that they should have fulfilled the mitzvos in this world, which resembles a sukkah and a דִּירַת עֲרַאי."

When the nations come and declare that they, too, want the Torah and would surely have fulfilled it, Hashem gives them the one mitzvah that is this foundation. The mitzvah that is the inner posture of all Torah life. The mitzvah that embodies impermanence.

As long as sitting in the Sukkah is pleasant, what does it reveal? The test must expose whether the nations genuinely regard this world as arai or whether they are simply enjoying themselves. So Hashem brings the summer heat. They become exempt. And then the true question is asked: how does a person exit a mitzvah?

The nature of the umos ha'olam is that they cannot nullify their own will. They cannot make the affairs of this world secondary. And so, when sitting in the sukkah becomes difficult, they kick it aside with brazenness and contempt - even though they are technically within their legal rights to leave.

Klal Yisrael, even when equally exempt, still place Hashem's will before their own comfort, and even when they are forced to leave, they leave with longing, pained that they couldn't keep on performing the mitzvah. The Rema, citing the Maharil (או"ח סי' תרלט סעיף ז), rules explicitly: "When one leaves the sukkah because of rain, he should not storm out in contempt. Rather, he should leave with humility - like a servant who poured a cup for his master, and he poured it over his face."

A Sign of Blessing - For Whom?

The source of the above parable - "like a servant who poured a cup for his master, and he poured it over his face" - is in the Mishnah (סוכה כח ע"ב): "All seven days a person should make his sukkah his permanent dwelling and his home his temporary one. If rain fell, when may he clear away? When (the rain is strong enough that) porridge would have been spoiled. They (-Chazal) illustrated this with a parable: to what may this be compared? To a servant who came to pour a cup for his master, and he poured a pitcher over his face."

The Gemara (שם כט ע"א) then raises a question about this parable - who poured upon whom? - and resolves it: it is the master who poured upon the servant, saying, in effect: "I have no need of your service."

The Chasam Sofer raises a striking question on the Gemara's uncertainty. How could it even occur to us that the parable refers to the servant pouring water on the master's face? That seems unthinkable. And furthermore, he notes: from the Gemara's formulation further in the discussion, it is implied that depending on whichever direction the water flows, it is either a sign of blessing or a sign of curse. When is it blessing?

Drawing on the very Gemara in Avodah Zarah we have explored, the Chasam Sofer explains magnificently:

The Yid who is distressed to leave his sukkah - whose heart wants to sit under its sechach but who simply cannot - for him, the rain is a siman berachah. It demonstrates the beloved quality of Klal Yisrael before Hashem. It is the master who pours the pitcher over the servant's face, releasing him from service: "I do not need your service in this moment - your longing was already enough." This is a sign of love.

But there is another kind of person - one who, when the rain begins, finds himself quietly resentful. Who mutters inwardly about the effort he invested in building the Sukkah. Who, when he walks back into his warm, solid home, feels a wave of relief, of comfort, of pleasure. For this person, the rain is a siman klalah. It is the servant who, in his heart, has poured the pitcher over his master's face - who has, so to speak, said to the Ribono Shel Olam: "I have no need of Your service."

And here the Chasam Sofer reveals something wondrous. The same rainfall, on the same night, from the same clouds can be a blessing for one person and a curse for another. It all depends on what the heart carries when the feet cross the threshold back into the house.

(דרשות חת"ס חלק א' מז)

What the Sukkah Asks of Us

Let us step back for a moment and consider what we have seen.

The inner posture the sukkah demands - bittul, hachna'ah, the capacity to hold this world lightly is the yesod, the very ground upon which all of avodas Hashem stands. Before we can keep a single mitzvah with integrity, we must first accept - in our bones, in our minds - that the One who commanded it is the true Owner of existence, and that everything we call 'ours' is, in the deepest sense, עֲרַאי.

After the awesome days of Elul and Tishrei, after Hashem has shown us His infinite compassion, we respond with our actions, we leave our solid walls. We sleep beneath the open sky, sheltered by little more than dried leaves. Through that act, we say to the Ribono Shel Olam: this is what we are. We are not our homes, our holdings, our achievements. We are Your servants, and all that we have is Yours.

Let us not leave this an empty act. Let us internalise the lesson and carry it with us even when the Yom Tov ends and we fold the walls away. Because the bittul that the sukkah embodies - the quiet, joyful release of the ego's grip on this world - is not seasonal. It is the essential identity of a yiddishe neshamah every single day of the year.

The Yid who leaves the Yom Tov with this understanding finds that the world looks different. The anxieties that once seemed permanent reveal themselves as עֲרַאי. The things that once felt like losses feel lighter. The ratzon to serve the Ribono Shel Olam - undistracted, unencumbered, with the wholeness of one who knows that nothing here is truly his to cling to - burns a little clearer. Every morning he rises with something of the sukkah still within him: the knowledge that his one permanent dwelling is not built of bricks, but of mitzvos, of Torah, of ahavas Hashem.

May the Ribono Shel Olam grant every Yid the daas to understand, truly and deeply, what דִירַת עֲרַאי means, and what it frees us to become. May the bittul of these seven days accompany us through all the days of the year that follow. And may we merit, in this very year, to walk from the impermanence of exile into the eternal dirah of geulah sheleimah - bimheirah b'yameinu, amen.

א גוט יוֹם טוֹב