MESILOT
Pathways to the Soul
Illuminating teachings and insights on the weekly Parsha of Rabbi Yoram Michael Abargel Zt”l
From the weekly lessons of his son Rabbi Yisrael Abargel Shlita
Tetzaveh | Rectifying the Sin of Evil Speech
Dedicated to the hatzlacha of Avi and Mordi Berko and her Family
In Parshat Tetzaveh, we learn about the special garments worn by the Kohanim, especially the Kohen Gadol. Among these garments is the Me’il, a robe with bells and pomegranates on its hem. The Torah tells us that the sound of the bells would be heard when the Kohen Gadol entered the Holy, so that he would not die.
The Power of Speech
Our Sages teach that the Me’il atones for the sin of evil speech (lashon hara). Just as the bells make noise, so too does a person’s speech make an impact in the world. The Kohen Gadol’s robe reminds us to use our words for good, to bring blessing and not harm.
Rectifying Lashon Hara
Rabbi Yoram Michael Abargel Zt”l explained that the process of rectifying lashon hara begins with awareness. We must recognize the power of our words and the damage they can cause. The first step is to refrain from speaking negatively about others, even in jest. The next step is to actively speak positively, to use our words to uplift and encourage.
The Role of the Kohen Gadol
The Kohen Gadol serves as a spiritual leader and example for the entire nation. His garments, especially the Me’il, symbolize the importance of purity in speech. When the Kohen Gadol enters the Holy, the sound of the bells announces his arrival, signifying transparency and honesty. There are no secrets before Hashem; everything is revealed.
Practical Steps
- Think before speaking: Is what I am about to say true? Is it necessary? Is it kind?
- If you have spoken lashon hara, seek forgiveness from the person you spoke about and from Hashem.
- Make a commitment to guard your tongue, even in challenging situations.
- Surround yourself with people who value positive speech.
Blessing for the Week
May we merit to purify our speech, to use our words to build and not destroy, and to bring blessing to ourselves and those around us. May the merit of the Kohen Gadol and his holy garments protect us and help us rectify the sin of evil speech.
