bring joy and benefit to the soul, which, as noted above, not only survives, but does so on a higher level, and all the things which had previously brought joy and pleasure to one's parents, will continue to do so even after they are physically no longer here. A simple illustration: When a person is called away from the provincial town to the capital, to serve in a higher capacity, and to occupy a position of honor in the royal palace, or royal academy, those dear ones left behind in the province would not regard the departure of their beloved as a tragedy. On the contrary.
I trust that the above will suffice to give you a better (incite) [insight] into the problems which are troubling your mind at this time. No doubt your husband will be able, if it is necessary, to refer you to the Holy books and sources where these questions are more fully discussed.
May G-d grant that you will carry on the conduct of your home with joy and gladness of heart, realizing that it is the housewife upon whom the responsibilities of the home atmosphere rests, and if you fulfill your responsibilities with joy, as your parents would want you to do, this is the greatest joy that you can bring to their souls, and this will also bring you and yours additional blessings, both physically and spiritually.
With Blessing,
M. Schneerson
