Pathways to the Heart
From the Words of HaRav Yoram Abargel zt”l
A person who is quick to anger – every small thing upsets him. Such a person is unfortunate; his whole life is suffering of the soul. Every moment that he is not angry is a great miracle for himself and for others.
What should such a person do? He should ask G-d for mercy – not only for his situation, for it is not wise to pray just for himself – rather he should beg from Hashem that he will succeed to understand what he must fix and rectify.
But if he will work on himself in this “small” area, and slowly train himself not to get angry at any person, whoever he may be, and that nothing will anger him, and he will not be particular against any person in the world – if for a year or two he works on himself, he may become a completely different person.