We know that nonverbal communication plays a significant role in how we interact, often conveying more than words alone. This includes facial expressions, posture, gestures, eye contact and tone of voice. A simple smile or a wave, for example, can communicate friendliness and warmth without any words. Research shows that the majority of our communication is done through nonverbal communication.
Where do we see nonverbal communication alluded to in the Torah? In the words כל עצמותי תאמרנה, which can be interpreted to mean as various body parts doing the communication, meaning nonverbal communication. If we use our bodies in ways that align with Hashem’s will, we can fulfill this pasuk in a profound way.
There are numerous examples of nonverbal communication in the Torah. One is הקורא את שמע לא ירמז בעיניו, ולא יקרוץ בשפתיו, ולא יראה באצבעותיו, one who recites the Shema should not hint with his eyes, nor signal with his lips, nor point with his fingers. Another example is found in the chazal, והוי מקבל את כל האדם בסבר פנים יפות, receive everyone with a cheerful face. May we merit to use all that we possess to fulfill the will of Hashem.
