The Ever-Changing Path of Life
Bilvavi | November 29, 2025
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The Ever-Changing Path of Life

Bilvavi | December 07, 2025

Life, in this world and in the next world, is never stagnant. There are ups and downs, better times and harder times, struggles and salvations, including, at times, when one must move to entirely new locations, with all the changes and adaptions that are involved in this move. Regarding Adam haRishon the Torah tells us, "Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife" (Bereishis 2:24). Yaakov Avinu did this also when he left the home of his parents, Yitzhak and Rivkah, and moved to Charan, to get married. This is an example of the ever-changing path of life, with its many experiences and circumstances.

At times, the changes bring relief. Life becomes better for the person than before. And at times, the changes are painful and difficult. This is represented by Charan (the city to where Yaakov traveled) because Charan stands for חרון אף, Hashem's anger (as our Rabbis tell us).

Also, in heaven, the existence isn't stationary. Some rise to higher worlds and to a better place in Gan Eden, and there are the souls that are sent to Gehinom (chas v’shalom), the location created to hold those who angered Hashem.

What is man's avodah? How should he react to all these changes?

He must know that his present situation is temporary, merely a temporary rung on the ladder of life. He shouldn't feel attached to "the place," or to the situation, because it isn’t permanent. Instead, he should feel attached to the journey of the changing-life, and he should serve Hashem, as best as he can, in his present circumstance. This will prepare him for the upcoming stage.

Most importantly, one should remember that wherever he is, Hakadosh Baruch Hu is with him. As it states, "If I ascend to the heavens, You are there, and if I make my bed in the grave, behold, You are there" (Tehillim 139:8). This is because one’s place is temporary, while Hakadosh Baruch Hu is permanent [and eternal].

Practical Application

Wherever a person finds themselves, he must sense that the Divine Presence is with him. God is here beside him now, and will accompany him to the next stage. Yet each place is but temporary — a passing step along the greater journey.

Life, in this world and in the next world, is never stagnant. There are ups and downs, better times and harder times, struggles and salvations, including, at times, when one must move to entirely new locations, with all the changes and adaptions that are involved in this move. Regarding Adam haRishon the Torah tells us, "Therefore, a man shall leave his father and his mother and cleave to his wife" (Bereishis 2:24). Yaakov Avinu did this also when he left the home of his parents, Yitzhak and Rivkah, and moved to Charan, to get married. This is an example of the ever-changing path of life, with its many experiences and circumstances.

At times, the changes bring relief. Life becomes better for the person than before. And at times, the changes are painful and difficult. This is represented by Charan (the city to where Yaakov traveled) because Charan stands for חרון אף, Hashem's anger (as our Rabbis tell us).

Also, in heaven, the existence isn't stationary. Some rise to higher worlds and to a better place in Gan Eden, and there are the souls that are sent to Gehinom (chas v’shalom), the location created to hold those who angered Hashem.

What is man's avodah? How should he react to all these changes?

He must know that his present situation is temporary, merely a temporary rung on the ladder of life. He shouldn't feel attached to "the place," or to the situation, because it isn’t permanent. Instead, he should feel attached to the journey of the changing-life, and he should serve Hashem, as best as he can, in his present circumstance. This will prepare him for the upcoming stage.

Most importantly, one should remember that wherever he is, Hakadosh Baruch Hu is with him. As it states, "If I ascend to the heavens, You are there, and if I make my bed in the grave, behold, You are there" (Tehillim 139:8). This is because one’s place is temporary, while Hakadosh Baruch Hu is permanent [and eternal].

Practical Application

Wherever a person finds themselves, he must sense that the Divine Presence is with him. God is here beside him now, and will accompany him to the next stage. Yet each place is but temporary — a passing step along the greater journey.

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