By Sarah Chana Radcliffe
How do we help build resilience in our kids. We see what kind of world we're living in - will our kids be okay here? As you know, kids have different vulnerabilities from birth - some are "teflon coated" - stress slides off of them. Others are like rolling burs that become coated with everything they touch. Either way, providing a secure emotional foundation is what YOU as a parent can do to enhance resilience. Cut back on anger and criticism; increase listening, naming and accepting feelings, positive feedback and affection. Strong roots help a tree hold its own in the wind. You can nurture those roots in your child.
Of course you WANT to yell at your teen for driving while texting...
When your teen's behavior frightens you, don't mask your response with anger. Be straight - tell her that you are scared. Instead of arousing defiance, you are more likely to get her to consider your words and reconsider her own actions.
