TRUE STORY
A person became very sick. As soon as he reminded himself about his recent concern about his terrible sins, he immediately did “Teshuva” and he was Dan himself L'kaf Zechus... and he had a Refua Shleima.
TRUE STORY
A 28-year-old Bachur wasn’t getting married, and he wasn’t even considered “marriage material” until he spent 20 minutes to ½ hour daily just praising himself. After 3 months he became a Chosson with a great shidduch. He said that already in the first month, things started moving.
I know someone who changed his life with Shalom Bayis, Parnasa, and nachas from a difficult son after one hour of writing 100 Maalos (true, exaggerated, and fake Maalos). The next two weeks, he did it for 10 minutes to ½ hour, with plain Chazara (review) and also new ideas. Sometimes it’s a preference to find the negative evil that you did, and to insist you’re okay (this is more important than counting Maalos; in order to weed out the source of pain) like R' Shlomo Wolbe Zatzal says: You have to be Dan yourself L'kaf Zechus.
