Question

We are a group of many people with many opinions—how to decide what to do?

Answer:

Ask me, and I'll tell you exactly what to do! (just joking). But really, find someone that the group feels comfortable with, and let him decide for you. That's the rule: It does not matter at all who you ask your questions to—as long as you feel comfortable with him, Hashem will give him the Divine help (si'ata dishmaya) to guide you in the right way (Rosh Yeshiva Rebbi Yisrael Falk shlit"a).