R’ Chatzkel Levenstein Zatzal points out that Hashem could change the situation in a second, and even the worst enemies can become your best friend. Rashi brings that when the Yidden asked for one gold item, the Mitzri'im replied: “I’ll give you two!”; they were super nice. Anti-Semitism had been rampant in Mitzrayim, and all of a sudden, they turned around.
A person has to live his life every second and inch with Hashem; get Hashem involved in everything. Rabeinu Yonah explains the Passuk in Mishlei: בְּכָל דְּרָכֶיךָ דָעֵהוּ (Mishlei 3:6) “Know Him in ALL your paths” means that a person should involve Hashem with even the smallest of things. He says that it’s a mistake that people put Hashem in the picture only by big things and not by the smaller things. R’ Avigdor Miller Zatzal says that it’s the biggest Bracha in the world when you live according to this Passuk, that with every move you make you involve Hashem.
Someone I know was having trouble dealing with a difficult boss. So he started each day by saying to Hashem before work: “Please help me deal with my boss with the right Sechel. Help me do it right.” From that day on, everything turned around entirely. I know people who turned around their Shalom Bayis in the same way. They were constantly davening to Hashem in every move they made, before they walk in the door of their home. Don’t wait for the “big court case” to turn to Hashem.
I know people who have a lot of success with this, they are constantly talking to Hashem. Either it’s before a seder of learning, asking Hashem to help them learn well, or before marrying off a child; they are always involving Hashem. They ask Hashem to help them not get stressed out as well. How should a person do it? Each person has to know themselves, because it’s not the same every time. The Sefer Toras HaMincha (by R' Yaakov Skili, a Talmid of the Rashba) says that when you involve Hashem and throw yourself into His castle, you are Zoche to all kinds of good things and protections.
