...like in every matter of disagreement and complaint between people, he must turn to an authoritative rabbi in his city, who will listen to the ideas or opinions of both sides and will instruct them as to the opinion of Torah. And certainly in this case, both sides are interested in the whole matter being resolved according to the spirit of the Torah, that “its ways are ways of pleasantness and all its paths are peace”...(From a letter of the Lubavitcher Rebbe King Moshiach Shlita, Likkutei Sichos vol. 23, pg. 328)

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