First Take Care of Yourself and Your Close Ones Before You Serve the Public

First you are a private: שרי (mine) and later you rule for the public (שרה). First you do a good job on a small group, like Avram, who was a father to Aram, and later you expand, like Avraham which means: אב המון גויים a father to many nations. A Yesod: Make sure you take care of yourself or your close ones first, before you meet the public. (However, sometimes you grow more when you get involved with the public earlier, and the success you have with the public causes a spillover into your private life).