The Chochom says: “When my spouse (or other close relative, or friend) yells at me about things that I really didn’t do, I don’t mind in the least. It all goes over my head, and I never argue back or defend myself (which is the most ridiculous waste of time and energy). And sometimes the other party may even be right; in which case I’ll try to improve myself if possible.
Some people get panicky when they hear lies, especially about themselves. “But it’s not true! How can you say that??” Smart people who don’t really care, live longer and happier. (Gemara). If you’re really into truthfulness, then remember THIS truth: Any form of Yissurim (like getting yelled at) in this world, saves you from Gehinom, which is much worse than the entire Nazi Holocaust.
People who work on their Middos are the happiest people. Come and join the club!
