The Novardok Chinuch: Care About Your Behavior Only

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A couple approached me to help with their Shalom Bayis. Each one told me privately how crazy and impossible their spouse is. I have a Novardok Chinuch of not caring so much about how good is my spouse, or parent, child, neighbor, or boss, etc. I was taught only to care about myself. If you spent a lifetime being married to a witch, so what? You only come out ahead, if this golden opportunity makes you great in Savlanus (tolerance).