Look what happens right after Yaakov escapes from home, away from: בֹקֲﬠַי תֶא וָשֵׂﬠ םֹטְשִׂיַּו כז מא his brother’s wrath.
He is Zoche to the most incredible: ִה ְת ַגלוּ ֱא ת˄ ִקי prophetic revelation, beholding: םִיָמָשַּׁה רַﬠַשׁ הֶזְו the Heavenly gates, with plenty of Malachim going up and down! And he’s heading for the greatest accomplishment in the universe; i.e., giving birth to twelve Shevotim Tzaddikim G'murim, and creating the entire nation of Klal Yisroel!
Next time you are sad about not being loved, or other unpleasant issues; remember what Gevaldige good fortune shined on Yaakov as soon as Eisav decided to kill him!
And look at the end of the Parsha, when Lavan is running after him to kill him, again he ends up encountering: ˄ֱא יֵכֲאְלַמ ִק םי ב בל Malachei Elokim, and he is Zoche to see: ˄ֱא הֵנֲחַמ ִקים הֶזthe encampment of Hashem! What an amazing Zechus and privilege! Look how a: ָשׂנאוּי despised one and a: ףָדְּרִנ victim always come out ahead!
And of course, we have Leah: אְרַיַּו הָּמְחַר תֶא חַתְּפִיַּו הָאֵל הָאוּנְשׂ יִכּ 'ה טכ אציו לא who was unloved, so Hashem gave her a child, and the Alter from Kelm Zatzal says that it was only because she was a: הָאוּנְשׂ reject, and not her Tefilos or Ma’asim Tovim, that caused her: תֶא חַתְּפִיַּו הָּמְחַר to have a baby, and she was Zoche to six out of twelve Shevotim.
Look how Davka being hated and persecuted puts you ahead. And after Hagar was sent away, she was foretold that her descendants would be super-numerous! Chazal say that even if the victim is a Rasha and the persecutor is a Tzaddik, Hashem will still stick up for the victim! And notice how right after Yitzchok has tremendous aggravation (having to say that Rivka is his sister, since Avimelech and his Pelishtim are dangerous to his peaceful life) does the Passuk say about him: ˂וֹלָה ˂ֶלֵיַּו שׁיִאָה לַדְּגִיַּו דֹאְמ לַדָג יִכּ דַﬠ לֵדָגְו כו יג He started becoming great and prosperous, until he became extremely wealthy!
And, of course, we have Yosef. Look how: וֹתֹא וּאְנְשִׂיַּו ויָחֶא ד זל the hatred of his brothers forced him to leave his home, and become the longest living king in Tanach (80 years), and he saves the entire world from starvation!
And, of course, don’t forget Dovid HaMelech whose brothers sent him into a dangerous forest since they thought he was a Mamzer (Toras HaMincha) and in the end he becomes Dovid HaMelech!
I am worried. Did I make my readers all concerned that they don’t have enough Bizyonos and Redifos (persecution) and: שׂוֹ ְנ ִא םי enemies and hardships in their lives? This is actually the fact. The evil in your life has a strong tendency to cause all kinds of goodness! No more kvetching over pecklach! Try to keep a diary, and remember how this has already occurred in your life plenty of times.
But by not keeping records, and by not constantly reviewing all those Yeshuos and answered Tefilos that you were Zoche to, you lose your potential Emuna and Bitachon, and your ability to become an “Admor” (Hassidic Rebbe) full of: וֹמ ְפ ִתים wonders! This is why remembering Yetzias Mitzrayim is so important, and is prevalent all over during Shachris and Maariv and Kiddush and all the Parshiyos in the Torah.
With no diaries - it becomes almost like it never happened, no matter how big a: וֹמ ֵפת miracle you caused with your Bitachon and/or Tefilos. What a waste! The Yetzer Hara is on our case “overtime” to make us forget all those Gevaldige personal Nissim, and he pushes us to remember our unending issues until our minds are dominated by them, Rachmana Litzlan!
