Question: I would like to ask the Rabbi (if you know about it) about when somebody in the family is borderline (or bipolar, controlling), how to handle with this kind of people? Thank you so, so much. It's very, very important for me
Answer: Now, I don’t know exactly what is going on. But there are ways with dealing with this. I don’t know if I'm the address. There are therapists who know how to deal with this. I've seen Gedolei Yisroel who are stuck with interesting children. I know several of them. One is still alive, one is not. And I've seen them in action. And they loved having somebody schlepping them around. They're big Baalei Madrega, and they didn’t care. They tolerated and they allowed crazy things to happen, and they loved the person anyway. It’s an unusual thing, and I don’t know if I'm the address. You need a therapist to learn how to live in sanity with a thing like this. Do the best you can, that’s all I can say. And be Mispallel. You can change him around, oh boy! Come to me, and I’ll give you all the methodologies.
