A Bachur was raised in a super crazy family. He had a father with severe mental problems, who would physically beat up the kids even when they were older. And his marriage was miserable. The family had a very bad reputation. This Bachur himself suffered from plenty anxiety and depression. He went from therapist to therapist with all kinds of medication, and got nowhere. Until somebody introduced him to Bitachon Hotline etc., and he really took to it, until he was completely cured. He still had zero Shiduchim redd to him, and all his friends told him that he has to face reality and take some kind of weird Shidduch and accept life as it is.
He said: “What if the Hashgacha wants me to get married at 40? I’m not interested in that, and I believe that I can get exactly what I want with the power of Bitachon”. Although he was a total reject, and not one shadchan ever called him, he decided to spend time everyday working on Bitachon, that he’ll get a super normal Gevaldige Shidduch with a great family, etc. After 5 months, he found exactly what he wanted, by the weirdest shadchan who made crazy Cheshbonos why this was a perfect Shidduch. He is now happily married with a beautiful family.
