The Torah sticks up for the: הָאוּנְשׂ reject, and doesn’t allow the husband to make the son of the: הָבוּהֲא favorite wife, an unjust Bechor. Later in the Parsha, we have a man who hates his wife, and is: עַר םֵשׁ איִצוֹמ brings false witnesses against her. He’ll have to pay her 100 ֶכּ ֶסף dinars, and he won’t be able to divorce her for the rest of his life.
If you feel rejected )הָאוּנְשׂ( in any way, you should realize that Hashem is very much behind you. In fact, the very being rejected can be a Ma'ala, like it says: הָּמְחַר תֶא חַתְּפִיַּו הָאֵל הָאוּנְשׂ יִכּ 'ה אְרַיַּו ויצא כט לא Hashem saw that Leah was unloved, so He gave her a child. The main part of Klal Yisroel was created thanks to the Bizyonos of Leah Imeinu.
And the Alter of Kelm Zatzal points out that it wasn’t her Tefilos or her Tzidkus; but her Bizyonos! So many complain that our Yissurim (in Ruchaniyus and in Gashmiyus) cause less Torah and Avoda... We don’t realize that Yissurim itself is a priceless Ma'ala! Especially Bizyonos!
When a person was Chayav: ַמ ְלקוּ ת Malkus in Bais Din, he had to undergo tremendous physical pain; and they could almost kill him (Chazal ). But if he got embarrassed in Bais Din then he’s Patur completely! (Mishna). The next time you have Bizyonos in your life, be happy instead of sad! *
The greatest moment in the life of Dovid HaMelech was when he got Bizyonos through Shim'i ben Gera, who threw rocks at him and called him a Mamzer, Rotze'ach, No'ef, and To'eva; publicly! The Seforim say that when he accepted this without complaints, he hit the peak of his life, and became the: ֶר ֶג ְר ל ִב ִﬠי ֶשׁ י ֶמ ל ְר ָכּ ָב ה fourth Regel of the holy Merkava and was saved from being killed by his son Avshalom.
We can suggest that with a Bubby like Leah Imeinu, it was easier for Dovid. He remembered: הָאוּנְשׂ יִכּ 'ה אְרַיַּו הָּמְחַר תֶא חַתְּפִיַּו הָאֵל ויצא כט לא that his Bubby Leah was Zoche to a child because of her Bizyonos! We need to copy him and never forget that Passuk!
