Impacting the Daas of the Quarrelers

Sometimes, we are discouraged from attempting to bring peace between two people or between man and wife, saying, “Why do I need to lower myself into the mud? I have no koach for this!”

But the truth is that all that is necessary is to impact the da’as of the quarrelers. This is much more effective than the back-and-forth discussions and getting into the nitty-gritty of an argument. Learn Torah with him. Learn sefarim haKedoshim with him. You will see that he will be changed... and automatically peace will come.