Forging An Identity in Egypt
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First Reading: Forging An Identity in Egypt

“These are the names of the sons of Israel who came to Egypt; each man and his household came with Jacob.”

Four Merits

The sages tell us that our forefathers were redeemed from Egypt in merit of four things:

  • They did not change their names (Reuven and Shimon came down to Egypt and Reuven and Shimon were redeemed).
  • They did not change their language—they continued to speak in Hebrew.
  • They barred themselves from speaking evil about one another (lashon hara).
  • They barred themselves from improper sexual conduct.

There is a principle that whenever we are presented with a list of reasons, the final reason carries the most weight. In our case, this means that their guarding of the sexual covenant was most instrumental in retaining their identity and making the redemption possible.

1. Psikta DeRav Kahana 11:6 on the verse in Song of Songs 4:12.

2. The Hebrew term used by the sages to describe the guarding of the sexual conduct is הָוְרֶר עּדוְג, whose value is the product of “Eve” (חוה) and Havayah (י־הוה), or 19 times 26. The value of “Eve,” 19, is also the value of the letters used to fill Havayah in its alef-filling (א האו וא הודי). The total value of the alef-filling is thus, 19 + 26 = 45, also the value of Adam (םָדָא), representing the rectified initial (and final) reality of mankind.

Four Merits and Havayah

Since there are 4 merits enumerated, it is natural that we see how they correspond to the four letters of Havayah, God’s essential Name.

  • yud (י) wisdom – they did not change their names
  • hei (ה) understanding – they did not change their language
  • vav (ו) beauty – they barred themselves from speaking evil about one another
  • hei (ה) kingdom – they barred themselves from improper sexual conduct

Let us explain this correspondence.

Yud and hei: The first two merits follow the same formula “they did not change....” This illustrates that indeed the first two letters of Havayah—yud and hei—are an independent pair; they form a holy Name in themselves, pronounced Kah (י־ה). These two letters correspond to the intellectual faculties, wisdom and understanding.

3. See What You Need to Know About Kabbalah, pp. 148-9.

Immutability—the possibility of remaining static and unchanging—is a quality of mindfulness and resoluteness of one’s intellectual power. The Jewish people’s ability to remain unchanged emulates God’s transcendent aspect, about which the prophet says, “I, Havayah, have not changed and you the children of Jacob have not perished.”

Yud: Furthermore, in Hebrew, an object’s name (i.e., a proper noun) is its most essential predicate, closest to the thing-in-and-of-itself (the etzem, in Hebrew). Likewise, the sefirah of wisdom is the first revelation of Divinity, God’s first and most essential predicate, which is inseparable from Himself. For this reason, the letter yud has the form of a point, like the first dot of ink formed when a pen touches paper and the beginning of revelation of thought through writing occurs.

5. In Hebrew, the word for “ink” (יוֹד) is a permutation of the name of this letter, yud (דֹיו).

Hei: The Hebrew language is the language used by God to create the world. Put another way, the power inherent in it creates being. Similarly, the first hei in Havayah represents understanding and the World of Creation, the beginning of being. In Kabbalah, the five sources of the letters are situated in understanding.

6. Pardes Rimonim 23:1. Arizal’s Likutei Torah, Tehilim 53.

Vav and hei: In the original Hebrew, the final two merits also begin with the same phrase, “They barred themselves from...” (ןֵהַּה בָיָא הֹלֶש...). Again, the last two letters of Havayah form a pair and represent the revealed dimensions of this Name.

Vav: Guarding one’s tongue and never speaking evil about another is the hallmark of the six sefirot represented by the letter vav in Havayah (the value of vav is 6)—even though they are six, they are represented by a single sefirah (beauty) and a single letter (vav). Beauty is a state of composition, in which even opposites come together to form a more complete whole. The sense of unity between the Jews in Egypt prevented them from speaking ill of one another.

Hei: The final hei represents the sefirah of kingdom and the nukva, the feminine principle. Sexual purity and family purity is first and foremost dependent on the woman (and the feminine aspect of the husband). The sages learn that this trait was in the merit of our matriarch Sarah, “Sarah descended to Egypt and barred her sexuality, and all the Jewish women followed in her merit and were barred too.” Thus, the four merits that shielded our forefathers from being swallowed by the abominations of Egypt correspond to the four letters of Havayah.

All in the First Verse

Furthermore, these four merits are alluded to in the first verse of our parshah:

These are the names of the children of Israel coming into Egypt, with Jacob, each came with his household.

The first two words, “These are the names,” allude to the origin of the fourth and most important merit, that they barred themselves from improper sexual relations. The value of these two words in Hebrew (תֹמוְׁה שֶלֵאְו) exactly equals the value of the Hebrew idiom for familial peace and harmony, תִּיָּם בֹלוְׁש! The letters in “peace” (םֹלוָׁש), appear in these two words explicitly, תֹומְׁ שהֶלֵאְו. The remaining letters, אהות, spell the word “And you” (הָּתָאְו) or “[sexual] craving” (הָוֲאַּת).

Names

“The names of the Children of Israel” alludes of course to how they retained their names. The sages describe this (in Aramaic) as, “Reuven and Shimon descended, Reuven and Shimon ascended.” The initials of the Aramaic words for “descended” (ןּוּתְחַנ) and “ascended” (ןּקוְלַס) spell the word “miracle” (סֵנ), indicating that Hebrew names contain the miraculous power of the world of Emanation to bring a person out of exile.

Language

“Coming into Egypt” suggests that they did not change their language. The commentaries ask why the verb “coming” is in the present tense (יםִאָּבַה) and not in the more appropriate past tense (ּאוָּר בֶׁשֲא), for when the Book of Exodus begins the children of Israel had already been in Egypt for many years. This grammatical question about this word suggests that it indeed alludes to language. What we learn from this is that as long as a person retains his mother tongue (mama loshen, in Yiddish) he continues to feel that he has just arrived from his homeland and therefore does not fall under the influence of the local culture.

On an even deeper level, the sefirah of understanding is related to space (wisdom corresponds to time—temporal order of precedence—which exists even before space). Thus, retaining their language, which as we saw is related to the sefirah of understanding also helped them retain their sense of sacred space—the Land of Israel. For the same reason, the Jewish people continued to be known as Hebrews throughout their exile in Egypt, a name that has meaning only in the Land of Israel (it means literally, someone who has crossed the river, specifically the Jordan River).

Speech

“With Jacob” alludes to the merit of barring themselves from speaking evil about one another. Jacob is the archetypal soul of beauty, which earlier we saw corresponds to this merit. The Torah describes Jacob (before his sojourn with his uncle, Laban) as “An earnest man dwelling in tents [of Torah].” Before his encounter with Laban, Jacob did not know how to act fraudulently. In the Tikunei Zohar, the sefirah of beauty is described as “the body.” The Jewish people are likened to the organs of a single body. As long as their sense of identity is strong—that they are all “with Jacob”—they will not hurt one another, just as the left hand will not cut the right hand, as long as the mind is working, and both hands identify themselves as parts of the same organism.

Family

Finally, “each came with his household,” explicitly corresponds to the merit of family purity and barring themselves from improper sexual conduct. A woman is called her husband’s household (ֹיתוֵּב). Even a couple that lives in Egypt, which in Hebrew literally means “constricting,” symbolizing the trying and constricting nature of their surroundings, as long as they remain unconditionally and endlessly devoted to one another, will emerge with wealth and possessions as did the Jewish people from Egypt. This was the oath God made Abraham when he revealed the nature of the exile in Egypt to him.

Indeed, the gematria of the 3 words “each came with his household” (ֹיתוֵבּ וישִאּאוָּב) is exactly 3 times “Abraham” (םָהָרְבַא). Abraham himself is the archetypal soul of loving-kindness and love, indicating that love between husband and wife can overcome all forms of spiritual and physical Egypt. The endless love between a husband and wife is a reflection of their endless love for God.

(from Sha’ashu’im Yom Yom, vol. 1, pp. 196ff.)

First Reading: Forging An Identity in Egypt

“These are the names of the sons of Israel who came to Egypt; each man and his household came with Jacob.”

Four Merits

The sages tell us that our forefathers were redeemed from Egypt in merit of four things:

  • They did not change their names (Reuven and Shimon came down to Egypt and Reuven and Shimon were redeemed).
  • They did not change their language—they continued to speak in Hebrew.
  • They barred themselves from speaking evil about one another (lashon hara).
  • They barred themselves from improper sexual conduct.

There is a principle that whenever we are presented with a list of reasons, the final reason carries the most weight. In our case, this means that their guarding of the sexual covenant was most instrumental in retaining their identity and making the redemption possible.

1. Psikta DeRav Kahana 11:6 on the verse in Song of Songs 4:12.

2. The Hebrew term used by the sages to describe the guarding of the sexual conduct is הָוְרֶר עּדוְג, whose value is the product of “Eve” (חוה) and Havayah (י־הוה), or 19 times 26. The value of “Eve,” 19, is also the value of the letters used to fill Havayah in its alef-filling (א האו וא הודי). The total value of the alef-filling is thus, 19 + 26 = 45, also the value of Adam (םָדָא), representing the rectified initial (and final) reality of mankind.

Four Merits and Havayah

Since there are 4 merits enumerated, it is natural that we see how they correspond to the four letters of Havayah, God’s essential Name.

  • yud (י) wisdom – they did not change their names
  • hei (ה) understanding – they did not change their language
  • vav (ו) beauty – they barred themselves from speaking evil about one another
  • hei (ה) kingdom – they barred themselves from improper sexual conduct

Let us explain this correspondence.

Yud and hei: The first two merits follow the same formula “they did not change....” This illustrates that indeed the first two letters of Havayah—yud and hei—are an independent pair; they form a holy Name in themselves, pronounced Kah (י־ה). These two letters correspond to the intellectual faculties, wisdom and understanding.

3. See What You Need to Know About Kabbalah, pp. 148-9.

Immutability—the possibility of remaining static and unchanging—is a quality of mindfulness and resoluteness of one’s intellectual power. The Jewish people’s ability to remain unchanged emulates God’s transcendent aspect, about which the prophet says, “I, Havayah, have not changed and you the children of Jacob have not perished.”

Yud: Furthermore, in Hebrew, an object’s name (i.e., a proper noun) is its most essential predicate, closest to the thing-in-and-of-itself (the etzem, in Hebrew). Likewise, the sefirah of wisdom is the first revelation of Divinity, God’s first and most essential predicate, which is inseparable from Himself. For this reason, the letter yud has the form of a point, like the first dot of ink formed when a pen touches paper and the beginning of revelation of thought through writing occurs.

5. In Hebrew, the word for “ink” (יוֹד) is a permutation of the name of this letter, yud (דֹיו).

Hei: The Hebrew language is the language used by God to create the world. Put another way, the power inherent in it creates being. Similarly, the first hei in Havayah represents understanding and the World of Creation, the beginning of being. In Kabbalah, the five sources of the letters are situated in understanding.

6. Pardes Rimonim 23:1. Arizal’s Likutei Torah, Tehilim 53.

Vav and hei: In the original Hebrew, the final two merits also begin with the same phrase, “They barred themselves from...” (ןֵהַּה בָיָא הֹלֶש...). Again, the last two letters of Havayah form a pair and represent the revealed dimensions of this Name.

Vav: Guarding one’s tongue and never speaking evil about another is the hallmark of the six sefirot represented by the letter vav in Havayah (the value of vav is 6)—even though they are six, they are represented by a single sefirah (beauty) and a single letter (vav). Beauty is a state of composition, in which even opposites come together to form a more complete whole. The sense of unity between the Jews in Egypt prevented them from speaking ill of one another.

Hei: The final hei represents the sefirah of kingdom and the nukva, the feminine principle. Sexual purity and family purity is first and foremost dependent on the woman (and the feminine aspect of the husband). The sages learn that this trait was in the merit of our matriarch Sarah, “Sarah descended to Egypt and barred her sexuality, and all the Jewish women followed in her merit and were barred too.” Thus, the four merits that shielded our forefathers from being swallowed by the abominations of Egypt correspond to the four letters of Havayah.

All in the First Verse

Furthermore, these four merits are alluded to in the first verse of our parshah:

These are the names of the children of Israel coming into Egypt, with Jacob, each came with his household.

The first two words, “These are the names,” allude to the origin of the fourth and most important merit, that they barred themselves from improper sexual relations. The value of these two words in Hebrew (תֹמוְׁה שֶלֵאְו) exactly equals the value of the Hebrew idiom for familial peace and harmony, תִּיָּם בֹלוְׁש! The letters in “peace” (םֹלוָׁש), appear in these two words explicitly, תֹומְׁ שהֶלֵאְו. The remaining letters, אהות, spell the word “And you” (הָּתָאְו) or “[sexual] craving” (הָוֲאַּת).

Names

“The names of the Children of Israel” alludes of course to how they retained their names. The sages describe this (in Aramaic) as, “Reuven and Shimon descended, Reuven and Shimon ascended.” The initials of the Aramaic words for “descended” (ןּוּתְחַנ) and “ascended” (ןּקוְלַס) spell the word “miracle” (סֵנ), indicating that Hebrew names contain the miraculous power of the world of Emanation to bring a person out of exile.

Language

“Coming into Egypt” suggests that they did not change their language. The commentaries ask why the verb “coming” is in the present tense (יםִאָּבַה) and not in the more appropriate past tense (ּאוָּר בֶׁשֲא), for when the Book of Exodus begins the children of Israel had already been in Egypt for many years. This grammatical question about this word suggests that it indeed alludes to language. What we learn from this is that as long as a person retains his mother tongue (mama loshen, in Yiddish) he continues to feel that he has just arrived from his homeland and therefore does not fall under the influence of the local culture.

On an even deeper level, the sefirah of understanding is related to space (wisdom corresponds to time—temporal order of precedence—which exists even before space). Thus, retaining their language, which as we saw is related to the sefirah of understanding also helped them retain their sense of sacred space—the Land of Israel. For the same reason, the Jewish people continued to be known as Hebrews throughout their exile in Egypt, a name that has meaning only in the Land of Israel (it means literally, someone who has crossed the river, specifically the Jordan River).

Speech

“With Jacob” alludes to the merit of barring themselves from speaking evil about one another. Jacob is the archetypal soul of beauty, which earlier we saw corresponds to this merit. The Torah describes Jacob (before his sojourn with his uncle, Laban) as “An earnest man dwelling in tents [of Torah].” Before his encounter with Laban, Jacob did not know how to act fraudulently. In the Tikunei Zohar, the sefirah of beauty is described as “the body.” The Jewish people are likened to the organs of a single body. As long as their sense of identity is strong—that they are all “with Jacob”—they will not hurt one another, just as the left hand will not cut the right hand, as long as the mind is working, and both hands identify themselves as parts of the same organism.

Family

Finally, “each came with his household,” explicitly corresponds to the merit of family purity and barring themselves from improper sexual conduct. A woman is called her husband’s household (ֹיתוֵּב). Even a couple that lives in Egypt, which in Hebrew literally means “constricting,” symbolizing the trying and constricting nature of their surroundings, as long as they remain unconditionally and endlessly devoted to one another, will emerge with wealth and possessions as did the Jewish people from Egypt. This was the oath God made Abraham when he revealed the nature of the exile in Egypt to him.

Indeed, the gematria of the 3 words “each came with his household” (ֹיתוֵבּ וישִאּאוָּב) is exactly 3 times “Abraham” (םָהָרְבַא). Abraham himself is the archetypal soul of loving-kindness and love, indicating that love between husband and wife can overcome all forms of spiritual and physical Egypt. The endless love between a husband and wife is a reflection of their endless love for God.

(from Sha’ashu’im Yom Yom, vol. 1, pp. 196ff.)

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