There are more stories. I’d like to tell you the stories but I don’t want to take up the time now, but it pays to spend time looking back at your life. No matter how young you are, you'll find incidents when Hakadosh Baruch Hu stepped in and seemed to disappoint you, and actually He was doing you a great benefit.
So everybody should know in his lifetime, there are thousands of things you should remember. Not only the jobs that turned you down; you should remember also the girls that turned you down. How lucky you were! You see them thirty years later and you say, “Baruch Hashem I didn’t marry her.”
No question about it! Hakadosh Baruch Hu stepped in at just the right moment and said, “No, that’s not the right one; the right one is waiting for you yet,” and so she turned you down. You were brokenhearted. Nothing to be brokenhearted about. Not only you’re not brokenhearted; it’s included in the mitzvah of looking back and remembering all these good things that happened to you.
