Toras Avigdor (R’ Avigdor Miller Zatzal) in this week’s Parsha discusses the importance of being alone with Hashem; this is what Avraham Avinu was always doing. He mentions how the holy Baal Shem Tov was alone in the forest for weeks. Also, R' Yoizel, the Alter of Novardok Zatzal had two huts in the forest; one that only his wife knew about (and no one else could get to him), the other, only his Talmid, R' Yoel Baranchik Zatzal knew about. I can’t agree more than to the greatness of being alone with Hashem.
The Alter of Novardok Zatzal says that Hashem is the Shoresh (source) of all your Hatzlachos. This turned me on big time! You want to be successful? Keep going back again and again to the Source of all goodness Who controls everything, and is stronger and more powerful than Hamas and your issues and crazy problems and relationships, your health, your learning Torah and Shviras HaMiddos, your very life!
Every time you run to Him, you are demonstrating that by you, אֵין עוֹד מִלְבַדּוֹ (there exists no power other than Hashem) is real, and as a result Hashem will give you much more than other people. When I’m alone in the car, or taking a walk, I’d much rather chap a schmooze with Hashem than learning or listening to tapes, etc. The more you’re with Hashem, the better! And for sure, Hashem appreciates your preferring His company than to all your friends and relatives! (Of course, use your Sechel as always.)