By most people, all they talk about and worry about is how is the nachas, the Parnasa, and the relationship situation. In Novardok, all they asked you about was how are you reacting to your Nisyonos, which is the main purpose of a person’s existence. Making Tikun HaMiddos your main focus will make you much happier.
I know a person who felt that he needed to improve his muscles. He used to do difficult exercises, and the only way he was able to continue was by constantly looking at the books that show you how great you’ll look and feel if you keep up the exercises.
L'havdil, those who keep learning Madregas HaAdam, which inspires you to go against your nature, and proves to you that only this will make you happy, actually enjoy working on Middos.
