Some people always feel that everything they do is no good, and when something bad happens, they get dizzy in the many possibilities of mistakes and sins that they did, which is causing their failures or problems, etc. Those people need to be extreme in Chazzering the Chazal of: אַל תִּצְדַּק הַרְבֵּה STOP BEING SUCH A TZADDIK. You’re not a big-enough Tzaddik to blame yourself or others for everything! Some people need a lifetime of Chazzering: אַל תִּצְדַּק הַרְבֵּה stop being such a Tzaddik.
Many, many of our Dor are loaded with this mentality. And although they should work on laughing at these stupidities, they will still get major Schar for their lifetime of pain and anguish, even if it is unfounded. In Novardok, they would tell themselves: “You’re full of baloney. Deep down you love getting depressed, so now you have some good excuses”.
