Parents who learn the art of looking at the chinuch of their children through this prism have it good in the present and in the future. Their children have such a different chinuch experience, because their parents’ entire attitude and approach is different. They don’t react viscerally when their children behave inappropriately. They only wish to do the right thing that will please the Ribbono shel Olam. They’ve already seen that shouting and criticizing will get them nowhere... instead, they wait, with patience and with tefillah and with trust in Hashem.
A person who goes on the mehalech of trying to control the situation will always encounter frustration... for this child is destroying his program and his plans that he carefully constructed.
